Its Done, So What? Big Deal?
Some people have a habit, they just simply answer – its done, so what?
Think what have you done? Done, what have you thought? Be consciously aware of your thoughts, actions and expressions.
With life, we need to take care and not just shrug off saying, what’s the big deal? so what? its done? it does not matter? Who cares? Maybe when you are on the receiving end and experiencing the process of paying the huge prices and penalties for having done wrong, you will then realize, how i wish i had done all of this differently, how i wish i had listened to my Parents and made the necessary changes in my life? How i wish, wish and wish i had utilized my time, capabilities and resources more responsibly and wisely, oh God, what do i do now, what’s all of this? How will i cope up and manage? Well, don’t despair or give up since you realize what has been done cannot be undone or in case you don’t have any issues and are following the correct and righteous pathways of life and living responsibly, then well, please keep up the good work, but if you have erred and made some serious or even simplest of mistakes, please do not punish yourselves either through brooding and contemplating fervently or any irresponsible actions whatsoever – what is important is that you accept what has gone wrong and don’t keep persistently denying and staging a fight against yourself and others pretentiously thinking that your battle will get you any relief since somethings are real in life and till you realize they may have already arrived and passed by amongst which the element of time is the very greatest ever, do not just take your time carelessly or negligently since how you allocate and resourcefully utilize your time, you will be able to either be in control or become controlled by circumstances and then helplessly running around.
Note – Please note the above or the following mentioned words are not intending to reflect on the negative or pessimistic perspective of aspects but rather seeking to preventively approach each aspect – remember, prevention is better than cure and in some cases where certain things have been done, needing the boldness to owe up and take responsibility, take responsible charge of your life please since how much ever anyone may say anything, until or unless you truly do what needs to be done, nothing just happens please.
All Right – If you think you have a better approach and practice of correcting what needs to be done, please do it but ensure that it is no shortcut that is fraught with dangers or hurting one anothers interests – as well as if you think that there is no one looking and just letting things pile up and go out and far beyond control? No, please stop, pause and carefully think, what you are doing, this life is beautiful and extremely wonderful when you are as well as you should be. If you have some habits that you have such as finding it extremely challenging to manage your time and caught with intense socializing and networking, needing some time for your own self everyday but never able to find the time, then you need to take the first step of accepting something responsible needs to be done and that something – that – those some – sum changes have to be brought about responsibly by you please.
Life – Life gives you every opportunity and resourcefulness to make this world a better place but you need to believe in yourself firstly, have faith in your trueself, in your divine essence, you are truly beautiful and magnificent, this is not about some fancy words or just motivating for the sake of cajoling or trying to draw your attention since you truly are wonderful – have you ever thought and seen yourself truly? Take some time everyday to meditate and develop the most greatest of relationships which is the relationship with your higher self, with your true self, with your true nature, experience your completeness, greatness, gracefulness, sincerity and truthfulness, you are truly amazing and a blessing to yourself and others, please help take care of your thinks and things, it may be hard and very hard at times, but never give up or feel and experience the defeat, for so many people have proven that within us, within our higher self, our true identity, we have an amazing strength and intelligence, our intuitive creativeness, there is so much of wisdom that is being conferred to us, but we need to be serving to be deserving – what this means is first we need to be true, we need to be pure – this need to be means to accept and realize, we are already true, we are already pure but we must believe and accept this and experience this from within to help remove the clutter or layers of ignorant thoughts and practices that may have deep entrenched and piled up within our thinking process misleading us to race and engage in practices and things that are not constructive at all.
Information – People, news reports, newsletters, advertisements, books, newspapers, magazines, blogs, television programmes, websites and other forms and modes of communications may keep bringing forth howmuch ever information towards us but until or unless we are truly engaging with what needs to be understood or enjoyed, we will be trying to reach out and across to most and just getting a very small or supercificial part of what we actually sought.
Explain – The above humbly means that when doing something, please be commited to it, be focused and loyal to whatever it is. If you are studying, study truly – If you are working, work truly and faithfully – If you are talking, talk truly – If you are watching, watch truly and not that you are on one hand, having your smartphone, engaging in multiple chat conversations, intermittently checking the mails and messages and then simultaneously watching the television and listening to music with the earphones plugged in your ears with intensely loud music? That is not trueness since you are scattering your energy away – you are just trying to be everywhere all the time with everything and you are placing extremely high pressure and challenges actually upon your own self where when sleeping late in the night or early hours of the morning and then sleeping right through the morning and waking up at lunch time? Where are you seeking to take you life towards? truly please? Summarizing the above, whatever you are doing, please do it truly and faithfully, be consciously aware that you are investing a part of your precious time while attending to your agendas, assignments, duties, objectives, studies, responsibilities and tasks respectively, please do not just do somethings for the sake of doing it and then regretting why you did not pay careful attention and then having to spend precious money, time and resources in doing it all over again? Networking maybe good, you come to know more people and your influence and popularity may grow but at what price please? Do you think that you can sacrifice and take detours, shortcuts and just rush through life and accelerate the process simply because you feel like that way please? The true way is living our values, living a purposeful life with due diligence, conscious awareness, prudence, responsibility, sincerity, truthfulness and your brilliant creative wisdom please, God Bless.
Sometimes, the smallest of thinks become the largest of things ever and then become far more challenging to cope up with – to manage and control please.
Please take care and develop a keen interest in what you are doing to ensure the very best is done since you expect, seek and speak of the very best – so when serving one another, that’s what comes back eventually, whether from the very same source we served or elsewhere.
Sometimes, some things become sum things in our lives, now whether it was time? whether it was our casual approach? whether it was our over confidence? whether it was our carefree attitude? whether it was our ignorance or negligence or whether it was foolishness or stupidity? The time that we reach further ahead comes to us demanding firm accountability and then even if we may appeal, plead and earnestly call upon all that is to provide us with respite, relief and forgiveness – it may have become far too late please.
That is why, when doing something, whatever it maybe, pay careful attention – don’t just put the documents whereever – don’t just put the money whereever – don’t just spend the money however – don’t just eat and drink whatever and howmuch ever – don’t just spend time gosipping howmuch ever – don’t just engage in chatting and idly spending more of your precious time focusing on somethings that have been taking away most of your time and brining nothing of goodness or principles or values into your lives since the time you trade off cannot be brought back or bought back please, your time is turly priceless, recognize its amazing worthiness – and don’t just say, when tomorrow comes or when next time comes, i will be more careful and then again when the next time comes, say oh gosh, i completely forgot, give me one more chance please? How many times shoudl you be given chances please? Is that music that you are listening to and the videos you are watching constantly going to come and do your examinations for you? as well as provide you with the necessary income and sustenance to help strengthen the foundation and pillars of your present and future livelihood please? Be where you are instead of constantly reminiscing and living only in recapitulation – how good it was then – how good it will be further ahead and what about now please? Now in your lives is what is needing your conscious and responsible participation please. Maybe now things are good and you say, never mind, this is just not applicable to you? Well, time will tell since the roots will lead to the routes and to the truth after all, there is nothing in this life that just happened simply because someone wished it for you, it was your pure intention in the process that helped bring along and manifest so many things, occurrences, incidents and eventualities into your lives please, please, please and please kindly take good and careful care and do not ms understand the above, it is humbly seeking yours and one another’s good and better interests please, God Bless.
May one and all be blessed with a vision of good health, happiness, and wisdom always, God Bless.
Love, Light and Wisdom,
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