Close or Closed to our Feelings?
When we need somethings, we are extremely in close alignment with our feelings, seeking to fill and fulfill every aspect relating to them remarkably.
However, once having achieved our respective objectives and delightfully satisfied the relationship with the closeness and caring for our feelings should harmoniously continue.
We should seek to maintain a fair balance by impartially being the closest at any given time for it is our feelings that happen to influence lots of aspects in our lives whether we may realize it or not.
Understanding our feelings well enough will hopefully let us realize what is-may-or may not be in the best interests as well due to the continual engagement and keen participation.
However, when given the opportunities, if we may say we are tired and what closeness to maintain? What equilibrium to establish? Well, the choice is ours and so are the results as well.
Actually, the far better way at any given time, way and instance is to practice meditation whereby through the magnificent help of our true self, our true nature and our divine essence, we maybe able to discern more wisely and remain emotionally detached for so many aspects that may mostly be fleeting retinue of illusions and by living a purposeful life with conscious awareness, due diligence, prudence, responsibility and our creative wisdom, we would utilizing the very same energies and intellectual faculties to better understand and strengthen our responses and acknowledgements.
If one may say, it would be a more mature approach, where we would not be provoked or enticed into any engagements that a futile or exhausting our precious energies on irrelevant aspects and our focus would be unstinted and dedicated towards aspiring for earnestly supporting the ever glorious sustainable visions that belong to the goodwill, harmony and welfare of the universe infinitely, God Bless.
Note – Someone may ask us, how are you feeling? It is what you are feeling that influences the how, what relates to the singular or collective set of thoughts that we keep constantly within our minds and as times goes on, certain thoughts might keep harnessing the space of thoughts from the spaciousness to the spacelessness?
But why, why the artificial overfilling, when actually it maybe just some thoughts, but we may feel as if we are carrying the load of the world on our shoulders? It may perhaps be due to the fact that we have let and given absolute liberty to certain set of thoughts to languish and grow in their intense strength and dominate each and every part of our intellectual faculties so much so that we may tend to forget many things quite easily and then commit mistakes?
This should not happen since clouding our thinking process and visions just because of some thoughts and feelings would not actually justify in any given way, time or process – since to gain somethings small and irrelevant, we maybe running behind somethings that are not in our best interests? Any why do we jeopardize and take such risks, which we would never take otherwise? It maybe because we have filled our minds with so many thoughts that what is there between us and our minds, our thinking process is the volume and not the value of our thoughts, we are more qualitative oriented instead of qualitative oriented without even realizing.
The very same us who used to shirk from doing or even remotely imagining engagement with somethings becomes daring and opposing by doing what is contradictory? Can we allow then any such feelings to ever get filled or take sanctuary amongst the corridors of our minds realm please?
Our thinking when clarified and in calmness and serenity is quite different from the thinking when in agitation and anxiety where we see the same things as somethings else and then are helplessly scattering and divesting our precious energies to recuperate what we carelessly and very most negligently lost, in fact gambled away due to the erroneous thinking patterns? No, it is the feelings that have virtually empowered everything and every think else and started governing even our thinking process to such an extent that we started indulging in listening to our feelings without reasoning or ascertaining the righteousness and morality, the truthfulness and sincerity, and just went about satiating and satisfying the ever immense demands of our feelings knowing that we were possibly going far away from ourselves when we should actually be close, but the pretentious set of satisfactory factors kept mis leading us towards an abyss whose chasms could engulf and lead to further emptiness and void? Let us seek to completely avoid playing around with our feelings without understanding since in the process of seeking to serve them at times due to unwarranted and unfair demands, we may start getting served in return and then when we may want to regulate the process, we may be watching helplessly from a distance when actually we are quite close but the realization does not dawn, what we see all along is the farthest and more farthest of distances, the gap widening between us and our feelings and when we are able to by the grace of God reestablish our vital awareness, our self realization through meditation, we are glad at the conscious awakening to our true self and humbly seek to be in constant closeness to our feelings from a more mature and well informed approach and perspective thankfully thereby remaining close and not closed to our feelings ever and of course more and more closer in caring for ourselves and others compassionately, truly, responsibly and wisely, God Bless.
May one and all be blessed with a vision of good health, happiness, and wisdom always, God Bless.
Love, Light and Wisdom,
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