Have the courage to realize, accept and do the needful rather than dwelling solely upon regrets alone.
Until or unless we truly acknowledge and do what appropriate by practicing righteousness in all that we think, do and express, the disdainful state may incessantly linger.
Being sorry is not a choice and neither is being worried for self pitying and ignorantly moving from here to there to anywhere is not the right way.
If one is not able to understand how to go about certain aspects, then they should seek professional qualified counsel and guidance and truly do what’s right instead of expecting all the answers and solutions and resolutions to arrive to them all by themselves?
Life has been designed truly upon the basis of a divine purpose, divine principles, divine values and divine will where our true nature, our true self and our divine essence compassionately provides us with the incredible wisdom to live a truly wonderful life, however we need to institute a disciplined regimen in the way we live without conveniently bending any rules, regulations, laws or practices.
Remember we have come to this world and the words don’t just come by to us; it is we who indulge in thinking regarding certain patterns of thoughts that intensity and perpetuate and subsequently and many a time mysteriously lead us far, very far away from our true nature.
Then, committing any mistakes and hurting others sentiments and feelings, betraying others trust and dishonoring the commitments cannot be simply excused by saying, oh i am truly sorry and then repeating the same/similar set of practices over and over again?
How many times can one keep saying sorry and getting away? There is a limit to tolerance, there are certain limitations to excuses and pretensions, we are living in a real world and not just an imaginary world alone where everything is illusion; we have real consequences and accountability, we have the law of karma, the law of sow and reap, the law of what we do for others comes back to us in some way or another, at some time or another, somehow or another.
Being sorry is something that can be with one for a lifetime? when one is caught in a constant barrage of negative tendencies or negative patterns of thinking, where they take comfort in self pitying themselves, but they need to awaken to the beautifulness, completeness, responsibility and wonderfulness of life and live really, live truly, live consciously and live wisely, life is far much more than we think, thought is far much more than we live and responsibility is farthest more most than we could ever imagine for responsibility is a commitment of a lifetime where we safeguard and pre cautiously venture through each and every facet of life with due diligence, prudence, sincerity, truthfulness and our wisdom infinitely, God bless.
©2014 Vashi Chandi