By suppressing the tears, you tear the shades; let the tears flow/roll down your cheeks and do not feel conscious that someone is looking and what will others say.
Everyone knows how it feels; so as you could laugh/smile and the no one ever exclaimed at your joyfulness or looked strangely; now if you are going through a difficult time in your lives and may have lost a near/dear one, by all means, let the tears flow; shed the tears but do not tear the shades by deliberately restricting the tears; and thereby tearing through the shades,for what you suppress eventually intensifies all the more and seeks an outlet; so please do restrain your tears;let them flow as they would unhindered; Shiva Shakti bhava, God bless.
© 2016 Vashi Chandi