Hurt, The Feelings? The Realization!
At times, we may unknowingly hurt others feelings and sentiments? Those experiencing the hurt know how it feels and keep suffering because of our ignorant or negligent behavior?
At some other times, we may likewise hurt our very own selves considerably and keep this hurting all across a lifetime? Yet again, this cannot be defined or termed as sheer ignorance or negligence alone since the hurt is very closest to us and we may be earnestly seeking the needful healing, the release from the anguish, but then what is withholding the release please?
Well, it maybe the realization that has not actually dawned or we may have been just putting off thinking that the self pitying or victim hood is going to bring more comfort, solace or that we simply did not know what to really do?
No, that is not an answer at all, we should rather take the necessary and responsible steps at firstly+spontaneously seeking forgiveness from others as well as forgiving ourselves because however deep the scars maybe, nothing hurts more than deliberate hurt because there is a wound and we maybe delving deeper and far more deeper into that hurt for what?
No, it is not fair for ourselves or others, to tolerate or foolishly engage in the deviation from the norms and disciplined practices of living our values, we need to realize, yes realize and be consciously aware of what we are thinking, what we are doing and what we are expressing and not just live on an auto pilot mode, taking things as they come and piling on the heap and loads of overwhelming burdens of hurt that could only further attract more hurt and more on, but why?
We have our creative wisdom, we have our creative intelligence and we have our creative life to live in harmony and goodwill with ourselves and others, wake up, this is not a dress rehearsal or a stage play, this is real life with real values and real commitments, be true to your nature as well as nature to your truthfulness, God Bless.
May one and all be blessed with a vision of good health, happiness, and wisdom always, God Bless.
Love, Light and Wisdom,
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